Can contemporary couples (like you!) include “Readings” in their wedding ceremony?

Absolutely. While excerpts from religious and/or cultural texts are considered “traditional” by some people, the “Readings” portion of a ceremony is actually completely customizable.

Inspiration can come from anywhere. Quotes from your favourite books, songs, movies, or even favourite athletes are all fair game. You can ask your Officiant OR your family member/friend to share them at the ceremony.

If you decide to include Readings (because they are totally optional), plan for one to three brief choices. They might highlight the importance of unity, partnership, friendship, family, or marriage. What's most important is that they reflect you and your relationship—since they'll mark the start of your new chapter together!

Here are some ideas to get you started:

We hope this helps spark some ideas!

~ Rev. Amanda, Rev. Lauren & Rev. Victoria